Here for YOU Today and There for your FAMILY Tomorrow

Is Someone You Love Without a Support System?


Is Someone You Love Without a Support System?

With a health care system already straining at the seams from aging baby boomers, a new concern is rising: the care of elder orphans, single adults with no family to care for them as they age.

The chief of geriatric and palliative medicine at North Shore LIJ Health System found that about 25% of Americans age 65 or older are in danger of becoming “elder orphans.” That number may be increasing, as U.S. Census data says that one-third of Americans 45 to 63 are single—an increase of 50% since 1980.

The Enid (OK) News’ article, “Many seniors age without support system,” identified some questions to help physicians and other health care professionals screen patients and help identify those who are at the greatest risk of becoming an “elder orphan.” Identifying individuals most at risk allows health care providers to more effectively meet their needs and help to avoid health crises before they happen.

Planning for the future is critical for those aging alone and without a family support network. They need to consider their current living arrangements and compare it to future expectations. It is important to examine the services and amenities available in the community, such as mobile meals, public transportation and home healthcare.

You should also get your legal documents in order, like determining who’ll be your healthcare proxy, if you are unable to make decisions about your own health. If you don’t have someone in your personal life who can take on that responsibility, look at elder care options so that you can identify someone to speak on your behalf if you’re unable to speak for yourself. I know in Broward and Miami-Dade county the Jewish Federations have programs where their agencies serve as Care Managers for clients who include their organization in their estate plan. I, personally, have seen how valuable this has been for my clients.

You should talk to an attorney who specializes in Elder Law to help you.

Single men and women without families have to be more pro-active about advocating for their needs, and that includes planning for the challenges of aging well in advance. It is not fun to consider the decisions that will need to be made about geriatric care or end-of-life issues on your own, but planning in advance will, at the very least, provide some peace of mind.

By taking action now, elder orphans can put a plan into place that will allow them to age with dignity and retain independence for as long as possible.

Do you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach counties in Florida? Laws are constantly changing-- has your estate plan been reviewed in the last 2-3 years? Call me (954-888-1747) right away for peace of mind. I can help!

  • My practice is exclusively estate planning and probate,
  • I have prepared numerous estate plans in 16 years of practice,
  • I have administered estates and trusts through Probate all over Florida,
  • I am a Certified Financial Planner Professional™, and
  • I am here for YOU today and there for your FAMILY tomorrow.

Reference: The Enid (OK) News (March 19, 2017) “Many seniors age without support system”

Suggested Key Terms: Estate Planning Lawyer, Power of Attorney, Living Will, Healthcare Directive, Long-Term Care Planning, Elder Care, Elder Law Attorney

Why would we recommend D.T.F.? Several Reasons: Your ability to explain complex estate problems, clearly and patiently; your total lack of arrogance and pretense; a strong feeling that you are motivated by what you perceive is best for your client, rather than what would generate the largest legal fees; finally, and importantly, you are a lovely guy. A.C.

Two words cannot sum up the entire process of creating my “trust.” I enjoyed your attention to detail, your patience of explaining terms and conditions until I understood, also giving me copies to read and understand. Thank you for your suggestions on what was best for “me” but still allowing me to make my choice. Most of all, thank you for thinking of “me.” Wells Fargo said “you were the best” I cannot deny that. Again thank you very much for everything. Anna is an asset or a compliment to the firm. She is warm and very caring. It was great doing business. Thank you.